It's not like you haven't tried already. You probably attempted to declutter your living room, kitchen, bedroom already... Only to be paralyzed by overwhelm or to have that very room go back to the way it was in a matter of days.
This isn't on you.
That's because you've been trying to tackle it without a specific method.
Imagine you're trying to cook a new dish. You have all the best ingredients, the best oven, and a beautifully designed kitchen.
However, instead of following a recipe, you just throw things together, hoping for the best. Would that go well?
It's not because the ingredients were bad, or the oven wasn't working; it's because you didn’t have a recipe for it.
Just like you need to follow a recipe when cooking, you also need a recipe, or method, when decluttering your house.